The most common age of about three years, children are sent to kindergarten. The reason is usually mothers with access to work and, consequently, the inability to sit on at home with the child.
But some modern moms do not have such a need, it is possible to continue to pursue family and household.
In this case, the need for a garden at first sight is not necessary. But somehow, some mothers still give kids in kindergarten.
And, despite the ambiguous attitude of the society to this issue, such mothers often right.
The thing is that the child is growing and developing,change it needs. If up to three years, the main people in his life are the parents, in the three years he becomes aware of himself as a separate person. All of the cases the child tends to do on their own. Help is often at this age is perceived with hostility. Kindergarten just satisfies this need for separation from parents and the desire for independence.
Besides maturing child increasinglyin need of role-playing games. But such games are best carried out with peers. The child just need companions on the game. Within the walls of the house it gets crowded. And many mothers notice it. If the warm season it is possible to spend a lot of time on the playground with the other children, then this is not possible in winter. And then all the energy which found no outlet in the game, is poured onto the parents. Most often, parents do not maintain such a flow and begin to try to calm the child, "discipline". The result often is shattered nerves mom and dad, hurt and upset child.
And after visiting the garden takes a similar problem. The child all his irrepressible energy pours in active games with his friends in kindergarten. If the mother is at home, a possible option would be a short stay in the group.
In addition, it is in the children's collective childlearn to communicate, to find a common language with other children, or put up a quarrel, to convince someone or take someone else's point of view. The nature of the child undergoes a change or even more hardened. The child is in kindergarten knows the joy of friendship and bitter resentment. All of this - an integral part of the formation of the child as an individual. And do not deprive the child's parents of these events without any reason.