Not all of us are happy with our lives. We want to improve our situation, but often do not know how and what it should do.
Often we think that someone else will give us a clue what to do in certain situations.
Watch TV, ask friends.
There is a problem, and we go to friendsWe tell, ask advice or act in accordance with the stereotypes that exist in society. Only it often happens that by this decision the result of problems for some reason is not so what we would like to receive.
And there are times when we ourselves just comes saving thought or idea.
We call this the source of intuition.
Our in-depth "I", as they call it psychology,is a source of intuitive prompts, give us more information in each specific case, the life that we need to understand ourselves and solve our problems.
It turns out that we have a great"Assistant" in ourselves, which is why we do not listen. Nobody better than we know ourselves, our own problems can not be. And they can only decide ourselves. In the best case, if you tell someone about your problems, then that person will start to give advice from their own perspective, with his experience, may not even be related to ours.
Unfortunately, we rarely listen to ourintuitive source. Conflict begins with the fact of non-recognition, non-acceptance of the existence in us of such parts. Intuitive tips go, and we do not want to admit it, we are afraid to follow them, act "as always" do what is written in books or say smart people.
The question immediately arises, and how to distinguish the intuitive hints of random thoughts?
There is universal recognition of the mechanismtips. For each person this mechanism is individual. To learn how to distinguish the intuitive tips to start important just to know that this mechanism we have, and it works. And, of course, it comes with experience. We need your experience, your mistakes, your finds.
Think of any situation, when in front of youthere was a choice. At such moments, we are always there are various thoughts, feelings and tips, as well as what we should do. Relatively speaking, at first wanted to do so something, then another once and then got the idea ...
there is also an intuitive hint Amid all this chaos. Select it right is not easy.
Now let's fast forward to the time when youalready we made the choice to have committed the act, and it became obvious mistake or not. And if you now think of the feelings that have arisen at the time of the decision, then you will remember that the correct clue was.
And if the decision was made correctly, it is necessaryjust analyze why this hint was not taken into account. There was no self-belief? Prevented fear? Maybe something else? Such analysis helps to highlight a very intuitive hint in the future.
Remember when you used the correctintuitive hint. What did you have feelings? Remember, what was this hint, as it came, it was accompanied by a feeling? These indirect signs can learn to recognize the intuitive prompts.
Here everything is very individual and, unfortunately, a common algorithm as a sequence of actions simply do not exist.
Are you ready to watch yourfeelings and not to reject any information that you get, no matter how unexpected it was not (intuitive tips often paradoxical), so increases the likelihood that the real clue is easily recognized by you, and you will make the right decisions.