The process of raising a child can be overshadowed by his disobedience.
We teach the child to listen to the parents.
Electoral hearing is inherent in all children. That is, ten parental reminders that it is time to clean the room, they may never take note, and the accidentally dropped phrase about the idea of having a cat, the child will hear and begin to ask this cat. Before the child needs to somehow get through.
First understand, but whether the child really is youHears. The reasons for "deafness" can be many. Perhaps at some point your child was in another room and did not really hear you. Maybe a child is angry with you or upset, and therefore does not respond. Talk to the child while you are near him. If the child is busy and there is a possibility to distract him, call him and ask him to look at you.
Always provide information to your child once. A maximum of two. It should enter into your habit, though with difficulty. And do not make a tragedy from the fact that the child, for example, without your reminders will be late for dinner. He will have to eat one cooled meal, but then he will understand that it is better to respond after the first call.
Express your thoughts briefly and clearly, especially thisConcerns prohibitions and instructions. The younger the child, the worse he understands the long sentences. And to be too polite too, there is no need - do not complicate this communication.
The child should listen to all family members. As you are towards him, so he is to you: if you do not listen to him, then it is foolish to require him to listen to you.
Scream and irritation in the voice of the parent is more likely to offendChild, than make him listen. Moreover, if he does not like what we are trying to make him do, we offend him even more by shouting and annoyance. Speak with a confident but soft voice.
Do not say what you can not do, butSaying, please do. The most famous example: a mother, walking up with a child, tries to get him to go home. "Everything, I'm gone," she says to him, but does not go anywhere. And it should be consistent. Being consistent, this same you will teach your child.
Often children can not immediately respond to a request or demand. They need some time to understand you and make up a plan of action in their heads. And this does not mean that he did not hear you.