The process of raising a child can be marred by his disobedience.
Learn to listen to the child's parents.
Selective hearing is inherent in all children. That is, the ten parental reminders that it's time to clean the room, they did not take note of, and casually dropped by the phrase about the idea to get a cat and the baby hears the cat will begin to ask. Before the child must somehow reach.
First understand, and if you child is reallyhears. The reasons for "deafness" can be many. Perhaps, at some point your child is in another room and did not really hear you. Maybe, baby child is angry or upset at you, and therefore do not respond. Talk with your child standing next to him. If the child is busy and there is a possibility to distract him, hail him and ask to look at you.
Always tell your child the information once. A maximum of two. This should get you in the habit, though with difficulty. And do not make a tragedy out of the fact that the child, for example, will be late for dinner without your reminders. He will have to have cooled down to one meal, but then he realizes that it is better to respond after the first call.
Express your thoughts briefly and clearly, especiallyAs for the prohibitions and instructions. The younger the child, the less he understands the long sentences. And to be too polite, too, there is no need - do not complicate this same conversation.
Child need to listen to all family members. How do you to him, and he said to you: if you do not listen, it is foolish to claim to listen to you.
Creek and irritation in his voice parent often offendbaby, than force him to listen. Especially if he does not like what we're trying to get him to do, cry and annoyance we offend him even more. Speak confidently, but in a soft voice.
Do not say that you can not do, andsaying do. The most famous example: mother, walk up to the child, trying to get him to go home. "All I have left," she tells him, but does not go anywhere. As should be consistent. It is consistent, that you teach and your child.
Often children can not immediately respond to a request or requirement. They need some time to understand you and to make a plan of action in mind. And it does not mean that he did not hear you.