Children expect us to manifest love. Love that protects, a love that forgives and accepts you any.
But often parents restrain their emotions, fearing that the expression of feelings will make them more vulnerable, that children will enjoy this weakness and arrange holidays of disobedience.
But time flies so quickly, soon the children will grow up and express their love will be no one.
Do not lose precious days, donate your unconditional love to the child today.
Often parents do not know how to express their love. And the child receives emotions only ifWas guilty. But even in this case, all parental anger should be aimed at the child for good purposes. Do not need to read notations and shout. All words must be filled with meaning, that your parents love you very much and worry about you. At this point, you should look at the child at eye level, if necessary, squatting. Through the eyes you can convey the whole gamut of emotions, but in our case it is necessary to transmit only your love. After a look - one of the first ways to show your child love.
Conduct the experiment. Count how many times a day you touch a child with affection, and not necessarily (dress, bathe), how many times you hug and kiss. Often adults are embarrassed to show their feelings through physical contact, especially with an adult child. Pediatricians have long proved that for the normal physical and mental development of the baby, he needs daily embraces and caresses of his parents. Every year, we grow less and less. Physical contact has a beneficial effect on children, and calms the calves down. If it's hard for you to show such feelings, start with a daily kiss at night.
Children expect attention from us, and in return receive a TV, computer and PSP. Parents think that the benefits of civilization are a great way to show love Child and find him a job. And they actually wait for our personal attention, and this does not require much money and time. Get a family hobby, on weekends for skis, for example. Such outings will give the child the opportunity to feel that the parents belong to him and he is today the center of the universe. In this there is nothing bad. After all, it is the parent love And support make us successful and strong already in adulthood.