To understand a person without words - it is a very useful skill.
Unfortunately, not all of them have from birth. In fact, it is not difficult to learn.
You need to be a little more attentive, plus a little practice - and you can read anyone like a book.
Pay attention to how close to youIt is a person: The distance at which the source is located, characterized by his desire to communicate with you. The closer it is, the closer the relationship, he wants to establish. And vice versa: the more it is, the less you are wondering it.
Do not forget to make allowances for the fact that the inhabitants of large cities and representatives of some countries are used to communicate in close enough that others may even seem intimate.
Pay attention to the position of the head: If a person is talking to you, slightly bows his head in your direction, it is a sign of sympathy.
When a person lowers his head, it speaks of hisuncertainty. If this occurs during a private conversation, maybe he confused, unsure of himself, he wants to keep the distance - it's a closed position. If the head is lowered during an argument, perhaps, one is not sure that his statements are true. If the other person on the contrary, lifts his chin up, it signals its confidence, striving to reduce the distance or wish to cause you to dispute.
Pay attention to mirroring:Mirroring or repetition of poses - this is a sure sign that the person is interested and shows sympathy. To ensure that it does not match, try changing the position of the hands or feet, and after a while, check whether a person is repeated your posture.
Pay attention to your hands:If the hands are crossed, a closed position - the person is not configured to communicate. Keep in mind that for many people it is a familiar pose, but in this case, this habit suggests that the person restrained, constrained in dealing with people. If the legs crossed hands pretty well and confidently placed, such a posture says about the position of superiority. If a man put his hands on his hips, then he slightly nervous. Your interlocutor hands clenched in fists or lock? This means that the person is probably angry.
Pay attention to the individual gestures:If a person is constantly corrects hairstyle or pulls a strand of hair, it shows his sympathy for you or the person with whom he communicates. However, if at the same time it is high, as if in surprise, raising eyebrows, but rather shows its disagreement with you. If your partner a little furrows brow and narrows his eyes, so he tries to penetrate and reflect on what you are saying.
Pay attention to the legs:If a person shifts from one foot to the other, so he is nervous, not confident, awaiting something. Many people standing direct the toes toward the person to whom they are sympathetic. If a man touched his foot to your - is a direct flirt!