How often can you witness a situation where frustrated parents drag an unruly and rebellious child along the street.
Almost all children go through a period of awareness of their individuality, demonstrating their disobedience to others.
The task of parents is to help the child during this period to understand that adults want him only good.
Often tell the child about what you can do and what you can not, teach it to the established norms of behavior.
Before you require something from the kid, teach him to do it. For a period, do this with the child until you are sure that he has learned.
Speak clearly to the child about the punishment thatExpects him in case of disobedience to the requests of the parents. Fulfill your promises of punishment, otherwise you will not be able to make the child obedient. If the child notices that adults do not hold back the word and forgive him disobedience, he continues to be arbitrary.
Choose the most suitable time forDiscussion with the child of his behavior. At the moment of communication the child should be calm, for example, such a moment can be during the bathing of a child or walking with him.
In matters relating to the child, let himChoice. For example, he can choose what he will have breakfast from the two options offered. Thus, he will understand that you have no purpose to control and limit it in everything. Such an approach will help make the child obedient, it will be easier for the child to perceive parental requests more adequately.
Communicating with the child, choose a tone in whichThe child will be easier to settle down to attentive communication and obedience. Change irritability to politeness, so you will get rid of many problems associated with the behavior of the child. Kindness and affection can work a miracle with your child.
So that the child who has been absorbed in his thoughts hears you, take his hand before the beginning of the conversation, stroke, look into your eyes and calmly state your request.
Put the child in bed no later than 22 hours. If he goes to bed later, the likelihood is too high that the next day he will be whimsical and less obedient.
Show reasonable love for your child, notIndulge his whims. Define in the family a common line of behavior so that one of the parents is not evil and greedy in the eyes of the child, and the other is loved and reliable.