The problem of own housing, facing the young couple, forces them to agree to live with their parents.
At the same time, both pairs are aware of possible problems.
At the beginning of your cohabitation is betterAgree among themselves on the rules. This can concern places of common use, cleaning, cooking, behavior in general. Do not forget that you are in the territory of parents who have already established a certain life rhythm. For them, as people of age, it will be difficult to make changes in their way of life. Having agreed in an amicable way, try not to violate the accepted rules. This will help you avoid many problems.
Your second half will also not be easy to get along with your Parents. In fact, they are for your spouse strangersPeople. How you put yourself will depend on their relationship. You do not need to be a "mother's son" or "mother's daughter", who do everything their parents say. In the end, you already have a family, and you are responsible for the decisions made.
In the event of a controversial situation, gently,But firmly explain to parents their position, give arguments. Parents will understand that you can solve the problem yourself, and you will become established in the eyes of your spouse.
It is also necessary to find out all the questions immediately.About the rent (fees for utilities). It is better to pay your own part. So you once again prove your independence and can avoid in the future claims from the parents.
If possible, seek to acquire (take off) a separate living space. Not every spouse can live with strangers Parents for a long time. Over time, problems can affect your relationships.