Do not spit against the wind. You have to be in the flow of life.
In aikido, to defeat an opponent, you need to use his own strength against him, to succumb and enthrall. So it is in real life.
Instead of going against the movement, it is better to obey the avalanche, to use its power for yourself.
Much time and effort is devoted to resistance. If the work is not particularly beloved, the waiting for the weekend starts on Monday. Every evening, when we come home from work, we look at the clock - how much more time is left? What a horror - soon again to work!
In the morning I do not want to get out of bed and go toWork. And still it is necessary, but the forces have already been spent on resistance. Wasted. At the weekend we again look at the clock. Well, Saturday's over, there's one Sunday left, and again to work. On Sunday, every hour counts the end of freedom, it's already Monday.
And so constantly. In winter, I want summer, in summer - the end of the heat, in spring and in the fall - the end of slush. Enjoy life almost never succeeds in full force. This is how childhood passes - in anticipation of adolescence, maturity - in anticipation of freedom from work, and pension instead of the expected satisfaction and rest brings regret about never realized dreams and irretrievably lost time.
Submit to the current of life, its flow! Summer will end anyway, autumn will change in winter, spring will come by itself, without your constant experience. Live now, invest in the moment, feel happiness. After all, happiness - from the word "now"!
There is no future, it has not come yet. The past has already passed, and nothing can be changed in it. There is only the present, everything is only in it. And the future, and the past, which will come later ...