Parents always wish their child happiness, only sometimes their notions about it are wrong. To the child was really happy, it is necessary for the father and mother to be like that.
Taking care of the child is natural for parents,They always dream that their son or daughter will be successful. Failures of children are perceived as an insult, there can immediately fall accusations to the second half that the child is a dumb and insignificant, all in it, nothing can achieve.
It is necessary to love the child
To love a child does not mean that he shouldTo be all the best, and parents must hack to give it all. To love is to accept a little man as he already is. It's ridiculous to demand the ideal behavior and correctness of the action from the baby, who himself can not walk! He needs help to get back on his feet.
The help lies in different actions, beforeAll in communication. With the baby you need to talk, talk, even if he does not yet understand the speech. But he learns to pronounce sounds. It is important that he read poetry, told tales or stories that correspond to age at night. The child learns, knows, does not need to interfere with it, it is better to help. Let her walk barefoot through the flowering meadow, only not over the lawn in the big city, it's dangerous! She splashes in the boots in a puddle, playing snowballs with her peers.
What for the happiness of the child should not be done
Capricious to allow you can not have to laterTo work only on toys of the child, the prices for which will increase in proportion to his age. And to give birth "for yourself" also does not follow, the child is raised to care. A child born of a lonely mother with the sole purpose of bringing her a glass of water in old age becomes a "mother's son", and a "loving" mother will never allow him to marry, break any connection of her adult already grown up.
Many 40-year-old people live next to their mother, theyThey do not know how to build a relationship, they run to Mom for whatever reason. And this attitude to the child has nothing to do with sincere love for him. It is only a manifestation of one's own selfishness and the great love of the mother to herself.
Family of a happy child
In a happy family, there is no habit of eating "dryFeed ", which do not need to be cooked. Tastes are formed from childhood, so the mother prepares food, and traditional lunches (breakfasts, dinners) collect at the table the whole family. The order of the day parents must organize correctly, so that the child does not fall asleep on the keyboard deep after midnight, and in the morning he did not miss the first lessons at school.
And to bring up the baby from birth follows mom, andNot to entrust it to strangers who carry out only mechanical care, do not give either love or warmth of the soul. Quarrel with the child can not, it devastates him morally, because he has one love, to both parents. And to make a hard choice at a tender age, he can not do it, from this there are neuroses, behavior changes, and for the worse.