Everybody knows the feeling when a loved one has left.
Pain, disappointment, fatigue ...
Emotions like otklyucheny.No how to explain what happens then? How to explain the decline of not only the strength and senses.
When everything becomes gray and like life goes on, but now the things that surround cease to have the meaning that it was before.
Why is that?
Many of us have experienced the hard way "charm" of separation. Yes ... fights inside, hurt, shame ....
First I want to write, it is always possibletry to correct the mistakes, correct themselves, to correct their attitude to the situation. But sometimes it does not work and begins the period, which is called depression well or decrease emotionality. You can zoom in to isolation and loneliness.
Firstly, it concerns habits. The pillow, a cup when they are at hand - just a pillow and a cup, and when they disappear from life, it is a favorite pillow and favorite cup. We become attached to them firmly, and then took a rope and cut sharply. That man, when he was around, it seemed that it always, but when this fact is refuted, then we realize that they have lost a part of everyday life, life, and ourselves.
Secondly, deception. Not sure what this man has deceived you, you can deceive themselves. Perhaps it is fate-a sinner.
Third, when you threw, he or she is, it seems that all the cast.
You can write more thousands and thousands of points on why bad.
The pain is always present in such situations! Someone alcohol suppresses it, someone blames everyone and everything, confined to their own lives.
But then there comes a kind of apathy to the world and itsrhythm. The dynamics of life is replaced by the value of the constant and routine. Maybe it's because all the feelings that had previously been spent evenly splashed out like a volcano lava leaving only for work, home affairs and everything.
But you want to fix, right? Where appropriate, some words: "Life goes on." Perhaps, you need only wait out this period, helping himself to return to real life. Delve into the work to the maximum, put in order the house itself, a way of life and start from scratch. Maybe this list will be dented, but it will be clean and your choice whether to write on it and cherish it, or throw out, regretting it for life. You fall in love again, you will have a family, perhaps you will be traveling and fall in love with it. The main thing is not to withdraw and to help find your heart that will lead out of this state.
It is your right ... Click on the «play» or keep eternal pause.</ P>