What if you were called a bore?
Agree, not the most pleasant characteristic that you ever want to hear, because it says that a person is devoid of imagination and acts only according to logic.
It is believed that such a person acts on everyone's nerves, constantly being in a state of discontent with something or someone.
You can become boring without even noticing it. And this must be corrected, because only a positive person can be really happy.
Tediousness and boredom often go hand in hand. Therefore, with any desire to have fun from the heart - rejoice, because all is not lost.
Another indicator of boring is obsession. In this case, the interlocutor persistently speaks only one topic and does not allow others to speak out, imposing only his own opinion.
In order not to be boring, you need to remember someregulations. First, be aware that your problems are rarely of interest to anyone, unless, of course, they are not the closest people. Answering the question "How are you doing?", Do not list all the sorrows or unnecessary facts, try to answer shortly and if possible with humor.
It happens that the interlocutor is not configured to communicate -Neither with you, nor with someone else. In this case, one does not need to impose oneself and try, at all costs, to find a common theme for conversation. Do not waste time, maybe an interesting conversation will take place at another time.
Another problem of bores is the inability at the timeWill stop. A simple example: you were asked a question, and instead of answering briefly and in essence, you get into the subject so deeply that you get a lecture with which the interlocutor will want to escape for 5 or 10 minutes.
Do not take the information too seriously. In some situations, you need to respond with a note of humor, which will demonstrate the good mood and positive attitude with which you communicate. But do not bend the stick - reacting with laughter to all situations is not recommended. This will not speak of positivity, but of lightheadedness.
If during a conversation something is not clear, do notHurry to demand explanations and constantly ask again. Try to get an answer to the question of interest in the conversation, without interrupting the narrator. From one question, there will be no harm, but if they pour in one after another, this will lead anyone out of himself.
Another quality, though not entirely relevant toZanudstvu, but still no less repulsive people - boasting. Do not boast of your achievements, especially ridiculing the shortcomings of other people. During the conversation remember that a person not only wants to hear something, but also strives to contribute - express what he is interested in or what worries him. Respect each other so that the conversation is good and sincere.
Think positively, dilute seriousnessFunny and sometimes moderately stupid things, let's speak to other participants in the conversation and then you just will not be a bore, but only the soul of the company.