Doing homework often turnsA nightmare for parents and children. To what only parents resort to force children to make lessons: to persuasion, entreaties, threats, potholes and even to the belt.
As a result, the tasks were done, but all the mental forces of both sides were exhausted by that time.
How can we ensure that children learn how to solve problems independently without declaring war?
Certainly, independent domestic work is notAlways under the power of a child. This is its developing action: the student learns organization, self-discipline, problem solving. All these qualities will help the child in the future. Initially, they need our help, but sometimes we go too far in this desire to help. And maybe parents just do not have enough perseverance.
First, mark your contribution to their homeTasks as help, but not as complete implementation. When children understand that all responsibility for them lies with them, then your family will have less scandals, and the child will learn how to cope with difficulties on his own.
It often happens that parents are not aware of the requirements,Presented by the teacher for the fulfillment of tasks. It is in your interest and your child to communicate with his teacher at least once every six months. You need to hand over the schedule for all control, annual, verification works.
In addition, organize for the child his worka place. It should be as safe and comfortable for the child as possible. The table and chair should be adjusted for its growth, the table should have a lamp, all the necessary stationery. Watch that before and after doing homework, the child tidies up on the desktop.
Make a daily schedule for the child, includingHe needed time for classes. If the child is in the second shift, then the lessons must be completed in the morning. If the first shift? Either immediately after school, or after dinner. In the second half of the day the child should rest mentally. This schedule should be in sight of the child.
Help the child to plan the order himselfPerforming exercises. Begin with the easiest tasks for the child. In the middle there should be complex subjects, and at the end of the session what the child is interested in. This will preserve concentration and interest.
Your baby should understand that the tasks you needTo fulfill without fail and that it is necessary to do it qualitatively. First, all the tasks should be written to the draft. In the notebook, the answers to homework are recorded when everything is done correctly. By the way, many teachers at the school demand a draft to make sure that the child understood everything and decided.
Help him only if heIs experiencing insurmountable difficulties. But do not decide the task that he must do. Simulate a similar situation and explain how to solve it by example. Only then will you know that the child has figured out the problem.
Be strict about the performance of duties. If you see that the task is not completed, apply penalties.