Making some things, people sometimes have serious doubts as to their correctness.
However, there are clear criteria according to which we can determine how well you are doing.
Why should listen
When you make a difficult choice, psychologistsrecommend not to listen to reason, and to his heart. The fact is that our logic is often constrained by a variety of doubts and contradictions, as well as systems and imposed beliefs. Meanwhile, our feelings are behaving much more sincerely. If a person always comes to the heart, he knows no doubt and regret about something that was not done. Psychologists believe that deep down, everyone knows exactly how it should be done, in any case, when the decision concerns their own lives.
Is there a good way to determine whatit is you are feeling at the moment. Take a coin and toss it. If you dropped what you truly want, then you will be happy to do it. If you do not like the choice of a coin, the answer is obvious: you want a completely different! So do what you want, in spite of the coin.
Not enough information
Sometimes, even throwing a coin, you can not come toWe need a solution, simply because both options appear to be equally good or bad. In this case the problem is generally a lack of information. Try to find out as much as possible about the decisions that you have found. Surely some of them in the future or of parts would be less effective. Find it, and then be able to make a choice.
There are situations that need to be modeled,presenting possible consequences of decision-making. In order better to take a piece of paper and paint, that is waiting for you in one and in the other case. What are the criteria of events are important to you the most? Rate thereon situation that will arise after each of the solutions. Then it becomes clear what action you should do.
Often people are tormented by doubts, harassing yourselfthe question of how they did the right thing in any given case, and did not have to whether to do otherwise. If you are familiar with it, try to look at the situation differently. Remember that you do not live one day, one month or even one year. Try to look at their actions from afar as if passed 20-30 years, or even more. Most likely, it will become clear just how good or bad your act. Or maybe you do realize how small you are concerned about the problem.
It is not possible to foresee all
Whatever methods of analysis and predictionconsequences of their actions, you either used, life still is arranged so that it is impossible to foresee everything. Any such actions, the outcome of which can show only time. And then, not even the fact that it will make it for you. Perhaps if you are right now, can know only your descendants centuries later.