Everyone with whom we communicate, friends, work together, in varying degrees, it affects us.
And, of course, I want to bring the joy of fellowship.
But, unfortunately, this is not always the case.
Naively, neprozorlivosti or kindness we often keep off too close to his people who deliver the pain and trouble, and then not know how to get rid of them.
Do not despair - everything is possible.
The main thing - do not try to dot the i. It is not always necessary to disclose the truth about a person what he is bad and so on. Everyone has it man its own truth, and at the same time no one wantsadmit mistakes behind him, and safely shifts the blame on others. And because open discussion will only lead to scandal, spending nerves and further confrontation. Moreover, it is not necessary to hold the "open parting" with those with whom you often encounter, such as work or circle of friends in common.
The surest way - gradually reduced to no communication. Time - that is what each man there is never enough. On this should balk: "I am delighted to meet, but I have so much to do today ..." Reduce communication smoothly, occasionally Be attentions, but continue to keep their distance.
Avoid accusations and insults. Try to see the good in people and party. Think about the reasons for his bad behavior. Go to church and pray for his health. Do not wish him harm. Do not say, "That he disappeared," replace the wording of the positive "let him disappear from my life for the benefit of himself and me."
Try to understand what a life lesson youIt should be taken out of communication with an unpleasant person. As a rule, when you realize your mistake and start to understand the whole situation, a bad person like magically disappear from your life. And no one like him, too, no longer appears. After all, mission accomplished. Lesson learned.