Losers - the category of people who lose in life situations, lose, they are chronically unlucky, they do not succeed. They just attract negative situations.
How to get rid of failure?
Losers - a special category. They are called slabaks, losers, sorry, surprised, and yet all their failures - not just an unfavorable coincidence. A loser is a way of thinking. How to change thinking to get rid of a humiliating diagnosis - "loser"? In order not to feel like a loser, you need to get rid of annoying habits, change your outlook. It's not easy to do this, you'll have to work hard on yourself!
- Get rid of the habit of patiently acceptingDifficulties and what you do not like. Do not eat unloved food, do not wear ungainly clothes and uncomfortable shoes. Do not suffer what you do not like! Feel the taste of life.
- Do not communicate with people who try to humiliate you, kill your self-esteem and constantly criticize every action you take.
- Do not think about what kind of opinion about you will developOther people, what they will say or think. Your life is unique, you should not try to get used to everything, depriving yourself of initiative. Remember: you will try to please everyone - you will lose.
- Do not try to load yourself with other people's problems - theirEnough for yourself. Giving promises, fulfilling other people's requests, acquiring the reputation of a reliable person, you miss the opportunity to establish your own life, to enjoy and solve for yourself the vital issues, since all your time is spent on satisfying other people's interests.
- Do not try to control everything around you,To shoulder self-imposed responsibility. Get rid of the neurosis - even if you do not have time, do not gnaw yourself! The physical capabilities and endurance of a person are limited, be more indulgent towards yourself and do not neglect those people who are ready to help you.
- The path of least resistance is the shortestWay to an unfortunate coincidence. You may have to go against someone's opinions, cross your interests with strangers. Do not be afraid of this, otherwise you will always give up your "booty" to someone who has more strength and strength in his character.
- Do not keep all the senses "at the castle". Sometimes you should let go of yourself and say out loud what, maybe, someone will not like it. Do not hold resentment, find out the relationship immediately. Do not complain about life and do not delve into other people's complaints, do not encourage whiners - they steal your time and luck. Sometimes you have the right to both anger and love - do not be afraid to talk about your feelings out loud, an open, sincere person has much more chances to succeed.
- Do not be afraid to take risks, but do not forget aboutReasonable risk. Taking a risky decision, calculate additional options, ways of departure. But do not give up risk because of indecision! Do not be afraid to make a mistake - no one is mistaken who does nothing.
- You can not think only of others. Try to create your own personal space, so that those who live next door, it was warm and comfortable. The more comfortable you are - the better it will be around you around. Do not forget about relatives and parents - they will always be your support, unlike random people who will disown and forget about you right away if something in your life goes wrong.
- Do not spend time closing in four walls,Do not be a stunt. Do not buy any trash, get rid of unnecessary and old things. Leave the most necessary, necessary. Do not collect unnecessary information in your head, do not store it, do not read a different nonsense - in life is not so much time, devote yourself to reading the most necessary and good books.
- Do not get hung up on past failures andAchievements. What was yesterday was already dissolved in the past. Think about the future, make plans, but take care of today as well as you need it. Do not be afraid to dream - dreams, especially sincere ones, always come true.
- Forget about the words "I can not do it", "I do notI know how, "" I can not. " Do not miss the opportunity to learn something, Try to avoid the words "If this happens ...". A strong verbal formula structures space, so it's better to say: "When I do this ...", "When this and that happens." Thus, you program yourself that everything will necessarily turn out the way you want.
- Do not compare yourself with others. Everyone has his own life, his own mistakes and his own way. Imitating someone, you will become only a shadow, a copy, not realizing your own potential. Do not envy anyone, it distracts from your own life. Moreover, envious of something, we absolutely do not imagine how many problems the object of our envy can have - problems that we simply do not know about.
- Do not try to be perfect, throw outHead "complex best worker." Try to be independent, but do not be afraid to use someone else's help, boldly bring supporters and like-minded people to your cause. But do not shift responsibility to others.
- Do not think about the bad, do not listen to the terrible orSad stories. Get rid of shyness, a slight impudence or insolence will only give you the charm. Never frown in public, smile, people are attracted to it.
- Do not take failure as a universalCatastrophe - but do not treat it as something unimportant and usual for you. Analyze your own mistakes - where did you allow them? Understand where you have made a mistake and do not repeat the mistakes again.