Our life is arranged in such a way that every day we have to deal with people who are wittingly or unwittingly offend us. Drinking such moments all different.
The most important thing in such situations - to be able to forgive the offender.
Do not focus on the situation in which youoffended. Yes, you can infinitely think about and sort out the smallest details in the head, but as a result of these actions came to nothing lead. Let her go, try to forget and forgive their abuser.
Do not hatched a plan for revenge. You'll spend a lot more effort and nerves, thinking of retaliation. I can not imagine how this would happen, because it is easier from this no one will.
Do not get angry at the person who offended you. Evil people are more likely to suffer from various diseases - stomach ulcers, nervous disorders. You do not want to hurt? So forgive this man and wish him all the best.
Draw conclusions from the past event toagain not to step on the same rake. But, try to forget about it. I'm sorry, you will be easier to live, than to live with the resentment and anger in his heart. Let the person who committed in your relationship this error, tormented and upset. If he asks you to forgive me - do not hesitate, and I'm sorry.
Remember that kindness - this is a greatthe quality that is necessary for each person to a harmonious life and peace of mind. Rancor, on the contrary, takes a lot of strength and energy. It happens that a person is difficult to forgive, though he can not transcend themselves. We are all different, someone so educated parents, so blame yourself this is not necessary. In this case, you need to work on yourself and learn to forgive. Common sense, objective analysis of the situation, the predominance of kindness over anger - aspects that will help you to forgive abuser.