Despite the ease with which modern couples decide to divorce, this event can be considered as the most traumatic in his life.
For some reason a divorce for a long time women knocks out of the rut, not allowing to open your soul to new opportunities.
To life again flashed bright colors after a divorce, you have to forget her ex-husband.
To begin with, rip contact with a former spouse. It is not always possible, especially if there are common children or business. But still try to about six months or a year after divorce does not communicate at all. Or talk only briefly and to the point. Remove it from the time on Skype or ICQ, do not look him pages on social networks. The physical contact helps to break the first step towards a psychological distance.
Take a break from the sad thoughts. Psychologists in one voice campaigning after Divorce favorite things to do. They say that especially helps dive into those things or hobbies that you have been deprived of the family. We all sacrifice something for the sake of the family nest. If you were once again on the loose, it's time to recall old memories. This will help you understand the simple truth that all that is done, all the better.
Change the appearance. Nothing improves mood woman as improving their appearance. New hairstyle, new clothes, new style of make-up can help you look at yourself differently. Bring out another way that can be useful to you in a new life without husband.
Take time out in relationships with men. Some women rush from one relationship to another. Family psychologists are advised not to do so. In adapting to the new conditions of existence after Divorce requires a minimum of one to two years. If you start to build a new relationship, unhealed wounds can demolish them and even more to lower your self-esteem during this period. Take a break from men a year or two and go to meet the love with renewed vigor.