It's amazing how sometimes the most elementary problem, like choosing clothes for a job interview, can lead a person out of balance and make them doubt their abilities.
To get rid of this shortcoming, you can in one way - develop a resolve.
Everyone should not only be able to takeIndependent decisions, he must also be responsible for their adoption. After all, often people can not decide for anything only because they doubt whether they made the right choice. They always wait for someone to help them, push them to the right decision or simply approve their actions. When such an assistant is not there, they are lost and do not know what to do.
Educating decisiveness in a person is necessary withEarly childhood, giving children the opportunity to solve small problems on their own. This will allow them even then to get used to the idea that responsibility for decisions made falls on their shoulders, and then in their adult life they will not be so frightened. What to do to those who entered into an independent life without this baggage?
As often as possible make independent decisions. Do not expect someone to help approve your choice. Just believe in yourself.
Independently choose the methods by which the goal will be achieved. Do not ask for help, thereby shifting some of the responsibility to others.
To develop in Yourself Determination, first put in front of a not very difficult task. After all, everyone knows: nothing so lifts the spirit and confidence in Yourself, As the success of earlier decisions.
If you need to solve the problem, think carefullyAnd determine all possible solutions. Having studied them all, choose the optimal one for you and justify why this option was chosen. This is a very important step, as this is proof of your rightness. Do not think about what others think about it, act as you see fit.
Go in for sports, it will not only help youTo be in good physical shape, but also will increase your determination by overcoming small obstacles during your studies. Only decisive people can succeed in life. Those who have not learned how to make independent decisions will live their lives in perpetual doubt and hesitation. Doubt or action? The choice is yours!