Why is it difficult to raise your income level?
How can this be avoided?
I will assume that almost every one of usThe situation when, at certain periods of life, the level of our earnings could not rise above a certain mark. We are changing jobs, we are looking for work-outs, we take an additional load, and as a result we have a quite definite sum with insignificant fluctuations. Is the situation familiar? Let's try to understand the reasons.
Despite our conscious aspirationsTo earn more, there is always some unconscious permission to have one or another amount of money. Where does this permission come from? As a rule, from a parent family. The child gets used to the level of life that his parents led, and continues to reproduce it inertia in his life.
Therefore, most often, it is quite difficult for a person to radically change the material standard of living in comparison with the standard of living of his parents. Although, of course, there are exceptions.
Also, our internal permission to ownA certain level of material prosperity can be socially conditioned. For example, it is widely believed that teachers earn little, bankers earn a lot, etc. And if a person classifies himself in a certain professional community, he can automatically set himself a financial benchmark.
Surely, there are still reasons for the emergence of unconscious permission or a ban on attracting money into their lives.
And now I suggest exploring your bar - the level of income that you allow yourself to have a month and above which you can not "jump".
To do this, write a few numbers on the sheet. These are the amounts that you will now represent as a monthly income. Write, several sums, the one you are now receiving per month, a little less, one and a half times as much, twice as many, etc.
And now we will do a little exercise. Imagine one by one that you receive a month's amount from the list and carefully observe your feelings. Start with the smallest amount, do not rush. Tune in to how you will feel, how comfortable or uncomfortable it is. Whether you experience any sensations in the body, palpitation may increase or other sensations may arise. For each amount, spend no more than 3-5 minutes and move on to the next. Living the sensation when presenting income levels, somewhere you will feel very comfortable, somewhere uncomfortable. Your task is to catch those amounts that give you a pleasant sensation, relaxation.
If at some point you feel that when youAn increase in the income presented per month will create tension and anxiety - this will mean that already this level of income, most likely you can not be allowed into your life. So, the previous amount will just be the level of income that you allow yourself to have.