The question of wearing someone else's underwear cross that belonged previously to a friend, including - a spouse, can occur for a variety of reasons.
Some of them are quite sad.
If the husband died, the widow may well leave his pectoral cross in memory, and then she will have to decide: whether to store it in a safe place or wear.
But it is not always the situation is so sad. A husband can give his wife a cross if she lost her. Finally, the cross can become a gift to the woman he loves, and the husband himself will wear the other cross.
In most cases, the arguments against wearingcross someone else's underwear, including - owned by the spouse, are as follows: Cross "absorbs" a problem and unhappiness of the owner, his "negative energy", and all this dangerous "matter" be sure to go to the one who wears a strange cross. And in general, if a person gives someone the cross, it is suspicious: he obviously wants to take off and pass to someone their own problems!
About Tic owned by the dead, and can not speak: the wife who has put the cross of her late husband, she would die in the near future!
All arguments listed above, go back tothe principle that "like produces like." This is one of the fundamental principles of mythological thinking. That it originated numerous signs and magic. And then, and another does not belong to the Christian faith and paganism, and be both pagan and Christian, it is impossible.
Holy Cross, including in the form of smallcross worn on the chest Christians, it is a symbol of salvation. Therefore, it is, in principle, can not carry a no negative meaning, especially - can not bring any trouble. From the point of view of Christians, can bring only misery own sins.
Any gift given from the heart, norBright memory of the deceased wife is not a sin. A woman can wear a cross without fear of her husband, which he gave to her as a token of his love. There is nothing dangerous and crosses late husband.
When her husband can not wear a cross
You can call only one situation in which bywearing crosses wife woman should refuse flatly. This is a case where the husband says, "Take my cross, you can wear it, I do not need it." This means that a person is willing to give up not only on the cross, but on faith. In this case, a loving Christian wife would not accept such a "wide gesture." On the contrary, she says: "Thank you, I already have a cross, and his keep. I am calm, when you wear it. "