Being a normal person and being a "middle peasant" is not the same thing.
A normal person tends to his own goals, has individual traits of character, his own view of things. "Serednyachki" are people who differ in no way from others.
Permanent presence in the "middle" stateThreatens with serious personal problems, because you do not develop, you do not stand out, you try to be "like everyone else" and thus you lose valuable time, you let life go by itself.
You equate your life with your work. If the main life goal for you is the salary, this is not good. By tying life to work, you become completely dependent on it. Your mood will be determined by the mood inside the office. Your motivation will directly depend on the success in the workplace. The work will not last forever, sooner or later you will retire, and then life will remember you all that you lost, wanting to be an "ideal employee."
You spend too much time on applications andsocial media. These devices are really convenient. They make it easy to establish communication with other people. However, most people use them excessively. Just think how much time is wasted when you sit in social networks. If you do not want to continue to be a "middle peasant" kill the dependence on social media and applications.
You always consider yourself busy. It seems to you that you have too many things that must be done, so you can neglect dinner with your family or walk with your loved one. Practice shows that 80% of the time a person spends on completely unnecessary things. Try to think whether you really need to cope with this task. Maybe the real value for you is completely different things.
You like to gossip. Discussing the alleged shortcomings of other people is a pleasure for many. It happens on a subconscious level, a person simply thinks that he is not so bad. Give up this habit. In the end, will it be nice for you if they start talking about you behind a muck?