Being a normal person and be "middling" - is not the same thing.
A normal person is committed to its own purposes, it has individual character traits, their own view of things. "Serednyachki" same - people who are no different from others.
Constant presence in the "middling" conditioncause serious personal problems, because you do not evolve, not stand out, try to be "like everyone else" and thus lose the most valuable time, let life take its course.
You equate your life to your work. If the main purpose of life for you is the salary, it's nothing good. Cabling life to work, you become totally dependent on it. Your mood will be determined by the mood inside the office. Your motivation will depend on the success in the workplace. The work will not last forever, sooner or later you go to retire, and then life will remember you all that you have lost, wanting to be "the perfect employee."
You spend too much time on the application andsocial media. These devices are really easy to use. They make it easy to establish communication with other people. However, most people use them excessively. Just think how much time is wasted when you sit in social networks. If you do not want to continue to be "middling" kill a reliance on social media and applications.
You always think you are busy. You feel that you have too many things that must be done, so we can neglect the dinner with the family or walk with your loved one. Practice shows that 80% of the time a person spends on absolutely unnecessary things. Try to think about whether you really need to do the task. Maybe the real value to you are entirely different things.
Do you like to gossip. Discussion imaginary shortcomings of other people much pleasure. This happens on a subconscious level, people just think that it is not so bad. Give up this habit. In the end, whether you will be pleased, if you start talking about behind muck?