Loss of control over their own lives ridiculously easy.
If you are heavily dependent on friends, colleagues or superiors, then your life will determine the circumstances that you just can not control.
It's time to change the situation.
Forgive yourself. Because of the constant stress and problems many people have become weak in the family. There is nothing to worry about. Due to fatigue, most forget about their own dreams and aspirations of old. This is also not critical. Remember that you are a living person, and you may have disadvantages. Ideal people do not know the story yet, so stop to reproach myself, and I'm sorry for the mistakes.
Do something. No matter what it is. Just put in front of any goal and achieve it. It is important that the goal is to satisfy your needs, not someone else's someone else. When you begin to use their power for yourself, you will open a "second wind". You will be able to deal with cases more quickly, and the quality is significantly improved.
Get familiar with your thoughts. You have in your head, probably originate battles. Modern life makes a person to solve a variety of tasks at the same time. This leads to a mess in my head. If you can not control your thoughts, how you can control your own life? Start thinking more positively, visualize, Motivational use. Avoid negativity, try to stifle it completely.
Take a vacation. Go somewhere where you will be completely alone. Think carefully about your life. Feel the freedom and emancipation. Make plans for the future and set a goal of life. This is a very important phase of your life and you can not miss it in any case. Take life into your own hands and achieve success.