Sometimes we admire a kindergarten teacher, who deftly controlled with twenty kids, without shouting and punishment system.
Why children can listen to an adult, and the other - to behave intolerably, in spite of all the prohibitions?
Your voice should be calm, steady, quietly. Pronunciation clear, we are competent without jargon, words-parasites and obscene words.
Keep in a speech many repetitions with the child. Repeat twice its request and no more.
Contact your child's name.
Do not let their behavior that forbid their child. Own an example - the best way to inculcate the right skills.
Treat your child with respect, as an adult, do not lisp.
Do not discuss the child's behavior at all, tell me what you are unhappy with him alone. But praise is better to say to the audience, creating a situation of success.
Do not give an overall assessment of the baby, express an opinion only on the last act, maintaining his self-esteem.
Expressing the little man's request is not necessary to intimidate penalties, backed by the success of the promotion. For example, "Gather, please, toys, and we porisuem in your new livery!"
If you promised to punish - punish. Otherwise, the child will not believe you next time and will continue to play pranks. Punishment should not degrade and must be accompanied by an explanatory conversation.
Do not compare your child with others. Applying this method of communication, you can lose credibility in the eyes of a baby.